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to wed or not to wed
Apr. 30th, 2007 07:44 amMarriage is the last thing on my mind. Since bata pa ko, never sumagi sa isip ko na makakasal ako with some guy. Though I dreamed of being with someone, but marrying him? hindi talaga. Me and toru, we always make wedding invites for friends, pero i've never designed any card for myself.
Habang lumalaki ako, andaming realizations. Hindi porke ikakasal ka, mature ka na at alam at handa na sa lahat ng bagay na mangyayari sa buhay nyong mag-asawa. Hindi pwedeng mag-back out unless na lang mag-divorce. Pero since walang divorce dito sa pinas, sorry na lang. I once wished na me divorce nga dito when my parents were about to separate. Mas madali kasi if you file divorce. it's the easiest way out. Pero divorce is not needed anymore sa parents ko. Half-glad na rin ako. Haha
To wed or not to wed: That is the question.
This post is because of the text message I received this morning. There're five messages from Atsuko saying: "Pwede ba kami mag-stay jan temporarily? Maghihiwalay na si Keiko and Bert. Dun muna sila Keiko, baby Mariel, and Nanay kay jeb mag-sstay. Pakisabi na lang ke Toru, punta sya dito para tulungan kami sa TV at ref. Maaga daw kami aalis dito. Please lang."
Imagine, magising kang yan ang message sau? Kundi matanggal antok mo!
Keiko's husband is the most stupid and mean person I've ever known in my life! Mas stupid pa sya kay MR. BEAN!!!! Pag hihingi ng pambili ng gatas si Keiko sa husband nya, ang sasabihin nya: "Nagtatrabaho ako para pambayad ng bahay." --- ANAK NG PUTING PUSANG KINALBO NG PAULIT-ULIT!!!!!!
Para na lang sa anak nya, magdadamot pa!!!! Sobrang pinag-iinit nya tuktok ko! At kung uminit nga ulo ko, how much more si Keiko? And it's not the first time na nangyari un. He bought a remote controlled-car for himself pero gatas ng baby nya, di sya makabili. Stupid di ba? Tapos, recently bumili sya ng isa pang laruan para sa sarili nya! Ridiculous and absurd di ba?
Sobrang pagkakamali ang na-fefeel ni Keiko ngaun malamang. Except for the fact na meron syang baby from him. Okay, Mariel is a gift at sya ang naglabas ng baho ng sarili nyang tatay. Cheers for Mariel baby!
Pero I don't feel bad for Keiko. It's the best she could do for herself and her baby. Walang mangyayari if you stay with a cricket-brained husband forever! Hindi ka nya mabubuhay.....
Keiko is not the only person na nakita ko'ng naghiwalay dahil sa mga indifferences. Kaya nga dapat, live-in muna bago kasal to test if you'll make a good wife and mother, and he a good husband and father to your child. Ganun! Para me quality check. hindi ung kasal ka na tapos maghihiwalay. Gastos lang un tapos masakit pa sa damdamin.
Haaaay.... T'is going to be a long, long, long, long.... day
Habang lumalaki ako, andaming realizations. Hindi porke ikakasal ka, mature ka na at alam at handa na sa lahat ng bagay na mangyayari sa buhay nyong mag-asawa. Hindi pwedeng mag-back out unless na lang mag-divorce. Pero since walang divorce dito sa pinas, sorry na lang. I once wished na me divorce nga dito when my parents were about to separate. Mas madali kasi if you file divorce. it's the easiest way out. Pero divorce is not needed anymore sa parents ko. Half-glad na rin ako. Haha
To wed or not to wed: That is the question.
This post is because of the text message I received this morning. There're five messages from Atsuko saying: "Pwede ba kami mag-stay jan temporarily? Maghihiwalay na si Keiko and Bert. Dun muna sila Keiko, baby Mariel, and Nanay kay jeb mag-sstay. Pakisabi na lang ke Toru, punta sya dito para tulungan kami sa TV at ref. Maaga daw kami aalis dito. Please lang."
Imagine, magising kang yan ang message sau? Kundi matanggal antok mo!
Keiko's husband is the most stupid and mean person I've ever known in my life! Mas stupid pa sya kay MR. BEAN!!!! Pag hihingi ng pambili ng gatas si Keiko sa husband nya, ang sasabihin nya: "Nagtatrabaho ako para pambayad ng bahay." --- ANAK NG PUTING PUSANG KINALBO NG PAULIT-ULIT!!!!!!
Para na lang sa anak nya, magdadamot pa!!!! Sobrang pinag-iinit nya tuktok ko! At kung uminit nga ulo ko, how much more si Keiko? And it's not the first time na nangyari un. He bought a remote controlled-car for himself pero gatas ng baby nya, di sya makabili. Stupid di ba? Tapos, recently bumili sya ng isa pang laruan para sa sarili nya! Ridiculous and absurd di ba?
Sobrang pagkakamali ang na-fefeel ni Keiko ngaun malamang. Except for the fact na meron syang baby from him. Okay, Mariel is a gift at sya ang naglabas ng baho ng sarili nyang tatay. Cheers for Mariel baby!
Pero I don't feel bad for Keiko. It's the best she could do for herself and her baby. Walang mangyayari if you stay with a cricket-brained husband forever! Hindi ka nya mabubuhay.....
Keiko is not the only person na nakita ko'ng naghiwalay dahil sa mga indifferences. Kaya nga dapat, live-in muna bago kasal to test if you'll make a good wife and mother, and he a good husband and father to your child. Ganun! Para me quality check. hindi ung kasal ka na tapos maghihiwalay. Gastos lang un tapos masakit pa sa damdamin.
Haaaay.... T'is going to be a long, long, long, long.... day
